Trauma Healing

I don’t know what got me on this topic, but I’m bringing it up, because hearing name calling is like, the most detestable thing. I can’t stand it. Why do people have to stoop to name calling? Men don’t realize that they have an impact on a woman’s mental health by their name calling. How can you possibly have an adult conversation with someone when all that comes out of their mouth is swear words and name calling? I mean, who grew up with this? This is so unhealthy to be around. But if a woman doesn’t speak up, then she’s allowing this type of abuse. Which tells me she doesn’t know or understand her worth.

I’m here to tell every woman out there, know your worth. You don’t deserve abuse of any type. Same goes with a man who’s dealing with an abusive woman. It’s not just a “man problem”. Women can be just as abusive as a man.

It really bothers me when a man calls a woman a “whore” or even worse, a “c***”. Any man I hear that uses those words are not of any interest to me. It’s disgusting, despicable, demeaning, hurtful and the list could go on. I’m not associating with any person who uses the most vulgar terms to describe another person. C’mon people, where is your maturity level? Where are your smarts?

And people who laugh about it are just as condemned, in my eyes. Because I don’t see any of the name calling as “funny”. Grow up. Be mature with your words. And act like a human being. I expect this kind of behavior from teenagers, but adults should know better. It’s just hurtful.

And I understand that not everybody has empathy. But that’s a topic for another day. Thus ends my rant of the day.